Here's How To Get Intimate With A Woman

When we are talking about matters like "relating to women", or "how to relate to women" or "Can you relate to women?", I usually get asked regarding how to start getting physical with a girl that you have known as a friend for awhile.

Getting physical is something which usually occurs naturally between a guy and a girl more than a three month period unless of course either of them is extremely uncomfortable on disinterested.

When a man is uncomfortable with approaching a woman for a physical relationship, the main thing which a man could do to deal with that is learn to observe and make use of gradients.

What are gradients? Gradients are like steps on a ladder that you climb to get to the top. A few guys may try to head to the top level of the ladder without ascending any of the steps. And that makes the girl uneasy as well as the guy.

A guy who is uncomfortable in this area ought to learn both how to recognize gradients when women make use of them and the way to make use of gradients on girls.

Not every woman will start at the same gradient. Some women will begin with a kiss after a first date, and move up steadily or swiftly from there - from kissing, to making out, to petting, to heavy petting and lastly to sexual relations. If a man attempts to jump to the "sexual relations" stage without going through the other gradients, he might just lose the girl. Conversely, you may lose a girl because you are moving up the gradients too slowly.

Now other girls won't even be up to the gradient of giving you a goodnight kiss till the seventh date. Gradients for her could be: getting to know you, speaking about sexual topics indirectly (for example commiserating about an ex-boyfriend), accidental touch (bumping into you while you walk), purposeful little touches to your arm or leg, holding onto your arm while you go walking, holding your hand, after which a goodnight kiss.

If you are not comfortable with this area and want to get physical with a girl, flirt with her, romance her, observe where she is on the gradients of sexual contact, then lead her up the gradients gently. So long as you don't skip a lot of gradients, if she is interested, she will move up the gradients swiftly or gradually depending on her persona.

If she is not interested, she probably won't budge. Try lowering the gradient and if she still doesn't budge, try talking about it. Ask her if she is interested in a relationship with you or if she only wants to be good friends.

Also remember that most girls won't go out on a "date" with you unless of course they are already vaguely fine with the idea of getting physical with you. So you might want to clarify if you are dating or just "chilling out."

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